Month: November 2022

KINK – A WORD THAT DEVALUES A LEGITIMATE LIFESTYLE?

  • November 22, 2022
  • SIR D

My slave hates the word ‘’kink’’. She is also uncomfortable with the word ‘’scene’’, at least in so far as it is used to describe a sexual encounter. I am less concerned with the use of either word but appreciate...

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THE PSYCHOLOGY OF D/s RELATIONSHIPS

  • November 22, 2022
  • SIR D

THE PSYCHOLOGY OF D/s RELATIONSHIPS There are people who think that Dominance and submission and BDSM more broadly is abnormal, and to the extent that it is practiced by a minority of people (which it appears to be) it is...

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TIPS FOR A HEALTHY D/s RELATIONSHIP (or interaction).

  • November 22, 2022
  • SIR D

This missive summarises the issues discussed in the last MEMBER DISCUSSION facilitated by Mestra and SIR D on the evening of August 23, 2022. It is an important topic. I hope you glean some insights from this summary. Your comments...

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HOW OPEN AND HONEST SHOULD A D/S RELATIONSHIP BE?

  • November 22, 2022
  • SIR D

WHAT IS HONESTY? Telling the truth?But it is more complex than that!Being honest requires you to be: Truthful (reactive).Transparent (proactive).Genuine.Sincere.Responsible. Being honest does not however require: Aggression.Gratuitous opinions.Unsubstantiated claims.Pretentious behaviour.Sharing anything that benefits no-one. WHEN IS HONESTY IMPORTANT AND WHY?...

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