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Welcome to the Life’s Hierarchy Club blog, where members discuss issues and present factual information relevant to the D/s lifestyle. We look forward to you posting a blog. Please feel free to comment. We welcome your point of view.

THE FINER POINTS AND COMPLEXITY OF CONSENT

Some thoughts on the finer points and complexity of Consent

  • June 16, 2020
  • blogeditor

Consent is a hard subject to write about. It’s emotional, it’s loaded, and many people have had super traumatic experiences with it. If you are talking about consent it’s often because there is a problem or violation and that can...

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CONSENTUAL HUGGING

Consentual Hugging

  • June 16, 2020
  • Mestra

It seems to me that when people join the BDSM or Kink scene they expect it to be free of rules and restrictions. A Fet bubble where they can do what they want, to whom they want, freely. That perception...

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Master slave relationship

PUNISHMENT IN A D/s RELATIONSHIP– WHAT – WHEN – WHY?

  • May 29, 2020
  • SIR D

I have a slave, and she lives by the rules and protocols I have laid out for her. Further, concerning these rules and protocols, she has two choices – obey, and life is sweet or disobey and be punished. Of...

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COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS D/S RELATIONSHIPS

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT D/s RELATIONSHIPS

  • May 25, 2020
  • SIR D

There are more misconceptions about D/s relationships than I could possibly address here. Like all lifestyles and cultural phenomenon, D/s relationships are often not understood by non-participants. There is also the subject of religious bias, sexual hang-ups and fear of...

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Dominant or Submissive? Power dynamics in Sexual Relationship

  • April 30, 2020
  • SIR D

I am really interested in power dynamics in all settings, including those within my home and around my lifestyle. That said, I am far more interested in real power than I am in the power as it is often expressed...

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DOMINANT AND SUBMISSIVE

Dominant and Submissive: A fantasy game or serious lifestyle option?

  • April 23, 2020
  • SIR D

There is a community-based in the United States called Humbled Females that has many members, if not a majority of members who object to any discussion of Bondage-Discipline-Sadism-Masochism (BDSM) on the basis that they see it as comprising games, developed...

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A word or three from Psychology Today

  • March 18, 2020
  • SIR D

A recent study on the psychological profile of BDSM (bondage-discipline, dominance-submission, sadism-masochism) practitioners has attracted a great deal of media attention, with headlines proclaiming that “S&M practitioners are healthier and less neurotic than those with a tamer sex life.” Although BDSM has often in the past been...

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WHY IS EVERYONE SO HUNG UP ABOUT SEX?

  • March 2, 2020
  • SIR D

Have you ever asked yourself why the church and in particular the Catholic church has so many hang up’s about sex? Have you ever wondered why they are against condoms, contraceptives in general, homosexuality, masturbate and just about every other...

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MILLIONS OF AUSTRALIANS PARTICIPATE IN NO-VANILLA SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS

  • March 2, 2020
  • SIR D

So, how many Australians are normal – whatever normal means? How many Australians are vanilla – whatever vanilla means? How many Australians are kinky – whatever kinky means? How many people life the same things you do – whatever that...

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