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Welcome to the Life’s Hierarchy Club blog, where members discuss issues and present factual information relevant to the D/s lifestyle. We look forward to you posting a blog. Please feel free to comment. We welcome your point of view.

You have to learn not to give a fuck

  • May 5, 2021
  • SIR D

There is an old parable that goes something like this – ''When we are young - we care what people think of us. When we are middle-aged – do not care what people think about us and when we are...

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LIVING A LEGITIMATE LIFESTYLE

  • May 5, 2021
  • SIR D

Over the past six months, I have conducted a number of interviews on the subject, MY LIFE – MY WAY. The core theme is that so long as it does not negatively impact anyone else – everyone has the right...

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Everyone has personal values. Which ones match yours?

  • April 17, 2021
  • Mestra

Whether we are consciously aware of them or not, everyone has personal values. The highest priority ones can be identified as personal core values. Personal values generate behaviour and dictate how we solve problems. Surprisingly, it’s not common practice to...

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Ways to temporarily counteract drop

  • April 10, 2021
  • Mestra

‘Drop’ is the depletion of hormones in the body and neurotransmitters in the brain after a peak in levels during play.  See my previous post for more info on recognising drop and what it is. Once you’ve recognised it, there...

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The single greatest way to counter drop …

  • April 8, 2021
  • Mestra

‘Drop’ is the depletion of hormones in the body and neurotransmitters in the brain after a peak in levels during play. They include adrenaline, oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin. Although mostly associated with slaves and submissives, anyone participating in play can...

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HIGH PROTOCOL DINNERS – SOPHISTICATED FUN

  • April 1, 2021
  • SIR D

Going out to dinner can, of course, involve anything from cheap and cheerful Chinese through to sophisticated dining at one of the cities silver service restaurants. Most cities have hundreds of cheap and cheerful Chinese restaurants and a few good...

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COULD YOU BE SEEN TO BE EXERTING COERCIVE CONTROL

  • February 27, 2021
  • SIR D

The New South Wales opposition is preparing to introduce legislation to ‘protect’ women in particular, and Australians more broadly, from ‘coercive control’. Should this legislation be passed, it would mandate penalties of up to 10 years gaol. ‘Coercive control’, sometimes...

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Wartenberg Wheel

  • February 26, 2021
  • Mestra

The Wartenberg Wheel - This device has came from the vanilla world. It was a medical tool for neurological purposes, used to test nerve reactions and sensitivity as it is rolled across the skin. A Wartenberg wheel is generally made...

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A Checklist

  • February 6, 2021
  • Mestra

There are lots of other checklists out there on the web. This is a concoction from a few, feel free to use/edit as you wish. This one includes service which I haven’t seen on others. This is a STANDARD checklist....

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Reflections on giving the first instructions to a new potential sub

  • January 28, 2021
  • Mestra

I’ve recently been chatting online with a potential new s type. After we’d been chatting for a while I said to him “I’d enjoy you sending me an image (from the internet) of something you find erotic and a fun...

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