Blog

Welcome to the Life’s Hierarchy Club blog, where members discuss issues and present factual information relevant to the D/s lifestyle. We look forward to you posting a blog. Please feel free to comment. We welcome your point of view.

COULD YOU BE SEEN TO BE EXERTING COERCIVE CONTROL

  • February 27, 2021
  • SIR D

The New South Wales opposition is preparing to introduce legislation to ‘protect’ women in particular, and Australians more broadly, from ‘coercive control’. Should this legislation be passed, it would mandate penalties of up to 10 years gaol. ‘Coercive control’, sometimes...

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Wartenberg Wheel

  • February 26, 2021
  • Mestra

The Wartenberg Wheel - This device has came from the vanilla world. It was a medical tool for neurological purposes, used to test nerve reactions and sensitivity as it is rolled across the skin. A Wartenberg wheel is generally made...

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A Checklist

  • February 6, 2021
  • Mestra

There are lots of other checklists out there on the web. This is a concoction from a few, feel free to use/edit as you wish. This one includes service which I haven’t seen on others. This is a STANDARD checklist....

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Reflections on giving the first instructions to a new potential sub

  • January 28, 2021
  • Mestra

I’ve recently been chatting online with a potential new s type. After we’d been chatting for a while I said to him “I’d enjoy you sending me an image (from the internet) of something you find erotic and a fun...

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Slave vs Submissive

  • January 28, 2021
  • Mestra

Generally speaking the difference between a slave and a submissive is that a slave don’t have any limits. A submissive retains their right to set limits. As always, the more you look into it, the more complicated it becomes. It’s...

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THE FINER POINTS AND COMPLEXITY OF CONSENT

Some thoughts on the finer points and complexity of Consent

  • June 16, 2020
  • blogeditor

Consent is a hard subject to write about. It’s emotional, it’s loaded, and many people have had super traumatic experiences with it. If you are talking about consent it’s often because there is a problem or violation and that can...

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CONSENTUAL HUGGING

Consentual Hugging

  • June 16, 2020
  • Mestra

It seems to me that when people join the BDSM or Kink scene they expect it to be free of rules and restrictions. A Fet bubble where they can do what they want, to whom they want, freely. That perception...

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PUNISHMENT IN A D/s RELATIONSHIP– WHAT – WHEN – WHY?

  • May 29, 2020
  • SIR D

I have a slave, and she lives by the rules and protocols I have laid out for her. Further, concerning these rules and protocols, she has two choices – obey, and life is sweet or disobey and be punished. Of...

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COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS D/S RELATIONSHIPS

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT D/s RELATIONSHIPS

  • May 25, 2020
  • SIR D

There are more misconceptions about D/s relationships than I could possibly address here. Like all lifestyles and cultural phenomenon, D/s relationships are often not understood by non-participants. There is also the subject of religious bias, sexual hang-ups and fear of...

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Dominant or Submissive? Power dynamics in Sexual Relationship

  • April 30, 2020
  • SIR D

I am really interested in power dynamics in all settings, including those within my home and around my lifestyle. That said, I am far more interested in real power than I am in the power as it is often expressed...

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