Mentors

Members planning for, starting out or developing an existing D/s relationship can nominate a preferred mentor. Mentoring sessions of 20-minute duration can then be scheduled on a weekly basis – or more frequently as required. This service is available to Dominant, submissive, male, female, heterosexual, bi-sexual, pansexual, homosexual, monogamous and polyamorous members.

Mentors can:

  • Provide comfort and support
  • Answer questions and concerns
  • Help address issues as they arise
  • Provide guidance and ideas
  • Offer a sounding board
  • Assist in developing a plan
  • Provide recommended actions

On joining, Premium Members will nominate a preferred mentor. Every effort will be made to allocate the preferred mentor to the member. Alternatives may need to be negotiated where a preferred mentor is fully booked. Mentoring sessions will be scheduled at times suitable to the member and the mentor. Conversations will take place using the private CHAT function on Life’s Hierarchy.

  • SIR D

    SIR D has 25-years-experience in BDSM and more especially dominance and submission.
    A successful businessman, SIR D has owned 5 slaves, all of whom he developed and trained to be they best they could be
    He currently owns – slave l.
    SIR D is available to converse with members and looks forward to actively participating in discussions. He is available to give advice and coach or dominants and Owners – or provide insights to and mentor submissive members and slaves
    SIR D, while demanding is very easy to talk to
    Both men and women, dominant and submissive, singles and couples, the monogamous and polyamorous are welcome to contact SIR D. Absolute discretion is assured.

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  • Slave l

    slave l has just 24 months of experience as a 24/7 slave.
    She is owned by SIR D.
    A professional woman, slave l has been developed from a single mother living a vanilla lifestyle into a slave who lives to serve her Owner. She knows what it takes to be a full-time slave
    Slave l is available to converse with members and looks forward to actively participating in discussions. She is available to mentor submissives and slaves.
    Slave l, is a great listener and has great insights to share
    Both men and women, dominant and submissive, singles and couples, the monogamous and polyamorous are welcome to contact slave l. absolute discretion is assured.

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  • MESTRA

    Mestra has experience with both male and female slaves and submissives, both 24×7 and part time (scene based). She is polyamorous and in a family (constellation/polycule) that includes a husband, poly partner , metamours, telemours and FWBs.

    Mestra has many years of experience in both the Perth and International BDSM scene. She facilitates skill shares, discussion groups and hosts parties on a regular basis.

    One of her specialties is mentoring couples through their introduction to poly, open relationships or kink/BDSM. She considers all questions to be good questions, and is considerate, open minded, empathetic, and always able to see both sides of any schism.

    She also enjoys kink/BDSM lifestyle coaching, and can provide ideas for spicing up a relationship, increasing the intensity of the Dynamic, or enjoying a quiet solo night at home.

    Regardless of your Dynamic role (slave/submissive/bottom/Switch/Top/Dominant/Mistress/Master/Owner) Mestra can help guide you along the path to creating your best experiences, your best self, relationships and facilitate the creation of memorable moments.

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  • Loopus

    Loopus (he/him) has been exploring the kink scene for a couple of years now, primarily through the submissive side of the slash, though he does identify as a Switch. A Primal first and foremost, he has interests ranging from service-style dynamics and TPE through bloodplay and Primal play. A firm believer in the strength of a submissive, and the security and dynamic can provide.

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