The Protector Role

  • October 25, 2021
  • Mestra

The aim of this role is to:-

  • answer your questions
  • provide information/education
  • help to vett potential play partners/dynamics
  • provide moral support at events, skillshares and/or discussions
  • provide reality checks between expectations, porn and real life
  • facilitate opportunities for kinky experiences eg fire play, electro etc
  • be a sounding board for concerns or issues, or to discuss options
  • provide advice and guidance on safety
  • to help you gain access to parties, events, skillshares and discussions, and to teach you the protocols for them so you’re welcome at them
  • to help you meet people
  • to help guide you to conclude what you’re interested in, and how to best achieve it

As a protector or mentor there won’t be any sexually based “anything” between us, partly because I believe that adding that element is to take advantage of someone being mentored. Additionally, because I think it’s inappropriate for that kind of relationship and also … because I don’t want to.

If you are an s type (sub/slave/switch):-

you are encouraged to provide (non sexual) service as a way to:-

  1. reciprocate time and effort
  2. learn more about what you like and dislike about service and how to find joy in it
  3. to learn new service skills
  4. to manage your expectations about what to expect
  5. to build a profile of what you have to offer
  6. you are welcome to link profiles (listing on Fet that you’re under my protection) so that prospective play partners or those wishing to message you are expected to go through me first 

You are free to make any and all decisions, and the responsibility for them lies with you. 

You are free to sever this agreement at any time.

This document is one persons opinion. You’re free to use and edit as you wish.

Post a Blog

Members of Life’s Hierarchy are invited to post a blog here. Visitors while welcome to read these blogs will need to join before being able to post an blog.